Burden for them

I believe that I should not be making decision for them as it is their life and their choice. I can advise but ultimately, I should not give them a feeling that I am forcing them to do something. You may think it is for their own good or thinking from their point of view, but what made you so sure that the decision you had made is the best for them? Between people-orientated and task-orientated, I would choose people. I totally agree that the type of community we are in requires us to control the level of autonomy. However, my stand is still the same, I want people to find joy in the things they do and the rest are secondary. No point being the best through dictatorship. Sorry does not work without action. I have a prophesy of warning; something worst is going to surface soon.