Deep thoughts

What is right and what is wrong? Who actually determines what is right and what is wrong? Why is it that someone who stabs another gets jailed and someone who hurts another does not? Is not both hurting someone and does the victim in both scenario not feel hurt or sad? Sounds dangerous and extreme to make such remarks but was just pondering over it. For I do not really know if You will agree with me. Before entering this, I paused all of a sudden and fell into deep thoughts. Which is worse? Emotional or physical hurt? I dare not confirm this statement though I felt that we are always hurting people who cares more than they injured themselves. The more I care for the person, the more I will get hurt. Hurtful words might just stab right into my heart at times without others knowing. Really pray that I will be more careful in my words so I will not hurt. And at the same time, also pray that I will not be hurt as I not only just want to care. I think You are the only person who will know what I am thinking at this very moment. And really thank You for answering my question.